to the groom.

He was called up to give a few words of blessing to the groom, and he spoke of his method to crawl through and survive his marriage. He said:

"I don't try to ruin, I mean run, her life; and I don't try to run my life. Blessings to you."

(and he might've said other stuff, but he was so drunk, and who in their right mind quotes drunk people...?)